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I Can’t Fill Her Shoes
- by Marisa
- July 31, 2008
My mom was finally discharged from the hospital. I picked her up yesterday, loaded her luggage and walker into the car and delivered her to my dad. He was ecstatic.
I’ve loved tending to my dad this past week or so. He’s still aware enough to be able to do many things for himself but is at that age (and stage of Alzheimer’s) where he really couldn’t care for himself for an entire week without help. I know he doesn’t remember every detail of the past week but he does realize that I’ve been here taking care of him. And he still has that wonderful sense of humor, too.
Once we got my mom settled into her recliner in the living room, she asked my dad how his week was. He said it was good to have his wife home instead of his mother. Then he looked at me with that sheepish grin and we all just laughed. I know he didn’t always want to eat when I fed him and he got irritated when I tried to help him walk, but as along as he saw my caring for him as “mothering” then it’s all good.
I know my mom was anxious to get home. My dad was even more anxious. No matter how well I cared for him, it just wasn’t the same. After 51 years together, I guess no one can fill my mom’s shoes in my dad’s mind. She’s one in a million.
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Aww that’s so sweet! Thanks for putting a smileon my face today. Glad you’re mom is back home safe n sound!
~Blythe
They’re both so cute. I’m glad she’s home, and that the surgery went well.
They are really cute like Tammie said. Your Dad’s view of the situation is funny, I guess we do tend to parent our parents at times.
Hi Marisa,
You might have noticed that the Photo-A-Day images from The BenSpark have not been showing up for a week now. Something happened to the feed coming from Buzznet. I have been very disappointed in their performance and in an effort to fix the problem as well as cut down the work I do each night to make sure the images get out to everyone I have made a switch to Flickr to deliver the Photo-A-Day images. I have new code on The BenSpark (http://www.benspark.com/photo-a-day) that you can use to update the widget. This should prevent any need to update the code again. I apologize for the lack of images lately and I thank you for hosting Photo-A-Day on your Blog.
It is nice to read through your posts and see that your family is doing well and your moms knee is getting better after surgery. Wow, 51 years together…That is awesome! Sounds like you have some awesome parents, and they have an awesome daughter!
You sound like such a kind person.
Great Post, Thanks….
Brady Jon,
It’s a good thing that she is well now. Surgery is a scary thing. Glad that she made it.
I’m glad everything went ok.