Another Year Older

I’m less than an hour away from Today is my 49th birthday. (Took too long to type this out, I guess) This will be my last year in this 4th decade. Next year, it’s the half century mark. Damn.

I know I’m not supposed to tell my age, being a woman and all. I guess I just don’t mind all that much. I mean, what’s so bad about being 49 instead of 39? Or more accurately, what’s so great about being 39 rather than 49? I’m smarter now than I was then; I’ve learned so many more lessons than I had at 29. I like myself a whole lot more than I did at 19. Other than having fewer years left on my calendar of life, why in the world should I keep my age a secret?

It’s been almost two years since I made my last major life change: I quit smoking. I promptly began to gain weight. And now, for the past 3 months, I’ve been losing weight and getting in shape again. I have a plan for my future and I’m feeling hopeful again. I’m not running on a treadmill getting nowhere; I have direction at last.

The last time I felt this good about my future was in 1999. I’d just gotten a job and was losing weight and getting fit. I was 40 years old. I’m not going to wait until I’m 50 to get back on track. I’m doing it now, today. I’m going to dance my way out of my 40s and into the next half century of my life. You see, I have a good reason to want to live healthy for a very, very long time. Her name is Kendyll and I’m going to dance at her wedding someday.

grammy and kendyll

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12 Responses to “Another Year Older”

  • Happy birthday, Sweetie! Maybe somebody will get you a REAL shirt so you don’t have to wear Steelers stuff anymore! ;-)

    only background Tammie (29 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the terribly early in the morning
  • Happy birthday, Marisa!

    Take it from someone who is staring 60 in the face, you are in a wonderful time of your life right now. Enjoy every second with that precious little one in your lap because she’ll be grown up and on her own before you can blink. That’s the bad thing about getting older–time just seems to fly!

    Hugs,

    Maggie
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    http://eyespi20.com

    only background Margaret Norkett (2 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the mid-afternoon
  • Happy Birthday, hon. I hope You live to be a hundred. *smile*

    only background Lee (0 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the in the early evening
  • You mean like Eagles stuff, instead???? Nooooo!

    only background Marisa (0 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the late at night
  • Oh, I know! My oldest will be 29 in February and my second son is 26 and thousands of miles away in Hawaii. Time does go by faster and faster as we get older!

    only background Marisa (0 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the late at night
  • Lee!!!! How are you sweetie? Please tell me you haven’t cut that beautiful hair. :)

    Thank you so much for stopping by with birthday wishes. You’ll always be one of my very favorite online friends.

    only background Marisa (0 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the late at night
  • I hope you’re having the most awesome day – Happy Birthday!

    only background LaDonna (4 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the in the wee hours
  • Thank you, LaDonna! It was a very nice day. Any time I’m with my family and the kids aren’t fighting, that’s a good day!

    only background Marisa (0 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the in the wee hours
  • Happy Birthday Marisa! :)

    only background Charlotte (1 comments.)November 12,. 2007 in the terribly early in the morning
  • There is no better reason to be in shape and live a long and hearty life… You’ll do it…

    Dorothy from grammology
    remember to call your grandma

    only background Dorothy Stahlnecker (74 comments.)November 13,. 2007 in the terribly early in the morning
  • Happy birthday, Marisa. Or as we say here in Hawaii: Hau`oli L? H?nau

    And may you have at least 49 more birthdays! ;-}

    only background Bobbie (5 comments.)November 14,. 2007 in the terribly early in the morning
  • Happy birthday, Marisa. Or as we say here in Hawaii: Hau ‘oli La Hanau

    And may you have at least 49 more birthdays! ;-}

    only background Bobbie (5 comments.)November 14,. 2007 in the terribly early in the morning